Over new years we were very lucky to get get to spend the holiday in Mexico with the fella's company. I had never been to Puerto Vallarta before but I was amazed at how gay and gay friendly it was. We even ran into a friend down there.
While on the trip it became clear to us based off of discussions with not only friends but just by reading people's profiles that so many gay men are taking PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylactic) treatment to help protect themselves from HIV. I had heard that this was becoming more popular but to hear first hand what a positive experience taking PrEP had been it convinced me to try and find a way to start protecting myself with it.
The only problem is the Alberta government and Canada as a whole has been dragging it's heels on approving PrEP for use. Gilead the maker of Truvada has not even applied to have it approved for use in Canada for PrEP.
As there is significant lack of information about PrEP and how to get on it in Canada I thought it would be valuable to document my experience in trying to protect myself.
Now there are a ton of articles about using PrEP out there and a bunch of research studies. I would advise using the wonders of google to find out if PrEP is something that is appropriate for you and your lifestyle. It is not for everyone.
Personally for me as a gay man in a loving but non-monogamous relationship PrEP represents an added layer of protection for both myself and the fella. We generally do not bareback with others but no method of protection is perfect. We have had condoms break at bad times before and it always causes a huge amount of anxiety around something that should be a celebration of life.
For me the value is knowing I can worry less about the condom snapping and more about enjoying the act. That freedom has never been something I have had.
Since we both have good drug coverage and the ability to pay the remainder it made the decision to go on PrEP much easier for us.
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